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    • CommentAuthormrsthing
    • CommentTimeNov 16th 2011
     
    TO EVERYONE:

    This forum will soon have administrators, and threats of violence or harm to any member or a member's friends, pets, family, etc., will not be tolerated. The admins will be able to delete accounts if they deem it necessary, and it will be their decision, not anyone else's.

    ALSO:
    *This* forum, with ALL its posts, will be transferred to the new site in a matter of days. The admins will be able to read ALL whispers.
    • CommentAuthorzelda
    • CommentTimeNov 16th 2011
     
    And what, pray tell, to false accusations to members of doing the same? What about harrasement and abuse to other members causing danger of health, physical safety and reputation. I am sure that is included!
    • CommentAuthormrsthing
    • CommentTimeNov 16th 2011
     
    I assume the admins will take the same hands-off policy as before. There is probably some general rule for determining what is "harassment" and what is just people being assholes. We worked out our own problems before. But as I said, the admins will be able to read the whispers, and I assume they'll make their decisions based on the information provided. I have no idea how these things are done.
    • CommentAuthorzelda
    • CommentTimeNov 16th 2011
     
    Unfortunately this has goe beyond administrators, I am sure you have asertained from things I have told you, MT. I am the one holding back, hoping it will end here.
    • CommentAuthormrsthing
    • CommentTimeNov 16th 2011 edited
     
    Having only one side of the story, I'm not in a position to judge. I can't anyway, as I'm not an admin. But we *will* have them soon, and they will be able to read whispers, and they will make the decision to delete an account or not. I don't know how it works; I don't know if there's some intermediate step they can take, or what. I don't know if they can see what a whisper said before it was edited. I'm not an admin.

    So if anybody is making threats, they should stop doing so now. It doesn't matter what the "score" is in the argument. Stop making threats, stop goading/baiting others, stop insulting others, stop putting one another down, and if you can't avoid an argument, take it offline or at least offsite.

    The new admins might not be as nice as Dean was.
    • CommentAuthorzelda
    • CommentTimeNov 16th 2011
     
    I have gone out of my way to be conciliatory. Accusations do not make it so.

    I will not discuss this further with anyone. My health is affected enough. there are others that willl do it for me.
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    then do it im done here and deleting my name but dont think im in fear i have legal peeps but it isnt right to do this to jc and u think too highly of urself its so sad but after i delete myself bring it on w ur others thats fine w me and my name on here as ftb should not be further on here
    • CommentAuthorzelda
    • CommentTimeNov 17th 2011 edited
     
    Re whispers..."If you have not done anything wrong than you have nothing to be afraid of." I am sure admene will notice editing when something seems illogical.


    I almost had to enter a hospital last month when this same issue started. I will allow my pros to handle it now.
    • CommentAuthorzelda
    • CommentTimeNov 18th 2011
     
    Your accusation are accusation does not even make sense as you accuse me of something someone else said. Why would you be in fear of me?
    I am the one in fear.
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      CommentAuthorchris14
    • CommentTimeNov 19th 2011
     
    Fanny, you're back!!! :crazy::clap::cheer:
    • CommentAuthorbiggalalla
    • CommentTimeNov 20th 2011
     
    oh dear !!
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      CommentAuthorkumbaya
    • CommentTimeDec 3rd 2011
     
    Why don't ladies understand that these stupid catfights are like elevator farts?

    Men don't have this problem.
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      CommentAuthorchris14
    • CommentTimeDec 5th 2011
     
    'Men don't have this problem'

    Do you mean catfights or elevator farts, Thumb?
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      CommentAuthorkumbaya
    • CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
     
    We don't have a problem avoiding cat-fights or doing great elevator farts. We'll ride up and down a few times on a really good one.
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      CommentAuthorchris14
    • CommentTimeDec 16th 2011
     
    That's good! We should learn from guys.